Conclusion

I hope that my posts have either helped or entertained you in some way. My general message is that, even though I have lived with a few less-than-perfect roommates, we seemed to find a way to manage through our differences and then separate without killing each other. Yes I have lost property during move-outs with each one of them, but I wouldn't call it stealing. I am lucky enough to say that the things that have been taken from me were not precious or priceless, and perhaps they were taken accidentally. I am lucky enough to say that I have gained life experiences from each of my roommates and I am still here to use the knowledge I've gained in my next living experience. I am thankful that I can share what I've learned with others, like my younger sister, and possibly prevent her from going through the same issues that I have been through.

Though it may be hard at times, the life experience gained from living with others is really irreplaceable. Once you move away from home and into a shared environment with, basically, a stranger, you realize how great your life at home was and you begin to cherish all the kind and selfless things that your family has done for you. When you live away from home, you learn how to provide for your own needs without the assistance of a parent or sibling. You begin to recognize the value of independence as well as the responsibilities that come with it. As a freshman, you may be exciting about moving to your own place and living separately from your family, and that excitement may last for a few months. Yet as you realize that you are an adult and your are solely responsible for your own well-being, you begin to understand the efforts of your parents and you develop a whole new appreciation for what they have done for you. As a freshman I never wanted to go back home and dreaded our winter break, but as a junior I love going back home and being able to exist in the wonderful environment that my parents have provided for me for my entire life. I now appreciate their home, their love, and their selflessness more than ever before, and I can't wait to go home for Christmas.